Thread: Adult son special needs

what happened?

Originally Posted by Bubs

what happened?

Probably shouldn't put it on here in the open forum. Kind of "adult" in nature. But I thought the best thing for him would be for him to finally learn how to take care of "these things" himself as he needs to. Thought maybe his cosmetic hand would be a good place to start.

Yikes! I hope this has all settled down now.

Originally Posted by cathyg

Yikes! I hope this has all settled down now.

Not really. It's a bit complicated. There isn't an easy solution for a few reasons.

Thanks for checking though.

Is there a young lady you could ask to help him out?

Originally Posted by auntylady

Is there a young lady you could ask to help him out?

LOL. Boy do I "wish". No. We live in a farming area that has about 100 families, very spread out. Closest town is about an hour away and "big city" about 5 hours away. Hard to imagine to you Brits I bet!! As far as the very few unattached women in the area, it is sad but true that my James is not the most eligible bachelor due to his loss of arms, scars and some burns on his face and chest. May sound harsh but I have learned to be a realist and it will be a while before he finds his "soulmate".

What about one you paid?

Originally Posted by auntylady

What about one you paid?

None available in this area. However I have taken him to the city once and paid for it there. Expensive and a 5 hour drive. I can't afford to do that as often as he is "aroused" I can tell you that. But at least he has had the "experience" now. I wonder if that has only fueled the fire though, lol. Sorry for laughing but I have to keep some humour or go nuts.

Originally Posted by auntylady

What about one you paid?

As well, the "paying" option is a bit risky. I don't want to get into it here outside of a private message but it was a bit scary to say the least.

Originally Posted by auntylady

What about one you paid?

And I want you to know I very much appreciate the interest. I hope I don't sound to negative in my responses because I really do appreciate the ideas and thoughts :-)