Thread: Officially run down

Woken up by heavy period/rampaging sore throat, not sure which (sore throat featured in dream). Only paracetamol without caffiene in house is Lemsip which I am clutching in tears. Have had cough since before Christmas, migraine Monday night after hectic Beavers, still sleeping in playroom which DH says however is my choice. (Not sure what my choices are since his facebook status is "separated") Job interview in Taunton on Friday.

All seems fairly trivial now.

Will go back to bed when Lemsip drunk. Suspect throat may require antibiotics but will consider doctor in morning.

For the further amusement of the 42 guests viewing this forum, it has just started raining which means the ceiling will probably shortly start leaking onto my bed...

Hugs! xxxx

You need to kick that bloke out, and into his girlfriends, so you can get some normality back!

Good luck with the doctors......

Absolutely! Hope you do get in at the doctor's.

set time a deadline to leave. give him three weeks to find someone else to leave and then change the locks and leave hi stuff at his mums.

hope you feel better soon x

omg he is still playing games with you and probably enjoying doing so. Please bring it to a head - bag up his stuff while he is out, reclaim the bedroom and put a lock on it - and you will feel so much better for just taking control. Tell his mum you've had enough and him that he needs to find somewhere else to go by the end of the month or it iwll be at hers. If you get the job will you move away ?

Sounds like you need to put the house on the market xxx

I agree with the others.... he should go......

I know you're probably fed up hearing it but you really do needto get rid of him.My mum and dad separated but stayed living in the same house it was hell for us 3 kids for about 2 yrs,the constant atmosphere,petty arguaments (when he was allowed to cook his food,who owned the tv etc) eventually it led to violence that we had to sit and watch,beleive me you don't want your boys being affected by any of it.Sorry if it sounds harsh but i can view it from the childrens side and they see/feel more than you think

Oh, and some more hugs......cos you need them! xxxxxx